"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New lifestyle hurting my chances with women?

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I wake up at 5am everyday now in order to get an early start. I absolutely love being able to wake up early and get in to work before anyone else. This gives me a chance to get work done without distractions. I go to bed at around 9 in order to get plenty of sleep. I also live alone now and meditate twice a day to keep myself mindful and in the present. Hardly drink anymore, and get tired early when I go out with friends on weekends. I'm usually too exhausted to hang out with the guys during the week and they are all still in school and go to bed at like 2am everynight and get drunk. Unrealistic for me.

Unfortunately, I find that I meet very few women with this lifestyle choice. Work offers no opportunity to meet women either (engineering consulting). Curious if any of you guys live an early to rise, early to bed type of lifestyle and are successful in your pursuit of hot women? How do you overcome obvious deficiencies in opportunity? I plan on getting in into MMA and dancing as hobbies. Already play lots of basketball. So don't talk about your hobbies, just everyday things that give you a better chance. My whole life is fantastic except for this whole meeting girls thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why not take a nap on Fridays.. and then go out at night.. Girls your age are out at night doing stuff on the weekends. During the day they do sports games and such or hang with the family or close friends. At night is when they expect to dress up and have drinks. You need to expand yourself a little and stop living like you have a wife and kids already.
 
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The nap is a good idea. A lot has changed for me recently, this job is new, car is new, just graduated college. Its a lot of getting used too. Haha, I know I sould like a grandpa when I write this, but I prefer waking up early when people aren't making noise. It's very peaceful and I feel like a happier person when I live this way.

Of course I know girls are out at night, I'm not looking to change my lifestyle. I've done the whole club, stay out late thing in college. I'm so sick of hangovers and wasted days. I like what you are saying though. I think you mean I need to be more flexible with my schedule to expand my life. Workin on it.
 
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