"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi,

I'm Dave and I'm super. I'm kind of awkward when it comes to women, which is why I have come to you guys for help. I've only ever had one girlfriend and that was back in high school. I don't really know why, but girls since then can't see how super I am. I think that this site will be a great help, and I thank all of you super guys in advance for helping.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi,

I'm Gay and I'm super. I'm kind of homo when I write about myself, which is why I have come to you guys for help. I've only ever had one boyfriend and that was back in high school. I don't really know why, but boys since then can't see how gay I am. I think that this site will be a great help, and I thank all of you super guys in advance for getting to the end of this paragraph.
 
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