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[Timmywimmy]

Hey guys so I've been kinda looking at this site for 2-3 months and I finally decided to sign up.

Basically I'm 18 working full time not in school, I've never had sex and I have very few friends and I never go out. I had a girlfriend but she would not have sex or do anything past make out with me which I thought was fine. A couple days ago I was in a car crash and I was told it was a miracle I came out alive. It was then I decided to dump my girlfriend cause I know I can do better and come here.

Any advice on where to go for a guy just starting would be awesome

 

[No.Danny]

Build your confidence up. Don't look at all these new threads because they're not what this sites about. Read, anti-dumps machine by pook and weapons of mass seduction. Basically anything by pook. Build your confidence up, get a good haircut. Workout, try to make more friends and most of all. GO OUT!

 

[mangotot]

Welcome bro.

 

[Genos]

Hey man. I'd start off with the DJ bible, here on sosuave.

A personal recommendation of mine would be to also check out Shark's blog, which you can find here: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/

And as Pook/Shark often say, "As you think, you shall become." From here, at the start of your journey, you can become whoever you want to be. Stick to your values and principles, and never settle for anything less. Everything else, don't be afraid to change and improve to become the best possible you that you can be. Put yourself into new, unusual situations. Be more social. The results will come.

Keep spiraling upwards.

 

[Tomo]

Good work my friend. As generic as it sounds, I advice internalising yourself first. ALWAYS focus on yourself first. Never place anyone or anything above that. Work on your health, building a good body, excelling at a career you can build and chasing dreams and goals you want (I don't believe in the realist sh*t). It's ironic that when you really fix yourself on this, the woman will come.