So I am new to this site and I've read a bunch of articles and I feel like my head is going to blow up with all the info it's even hard to retain. So I have a situation I wanted to see if you guys could help me with.
I have a girl that I've been interested in ever since I broke up with my long term gf about a year ago. We madeout at a concert early in last summer. Nothing ever really expanded from there. Not because if rejection as much as me just not wanting to move on from my ex. So basically we talk a little now and then and hangout but I haven't had the balls to actually make a real move because of the fear of rejection and losing thing we might have in my mind if that makes sense? So My question is how can I ask her out or show her I want more without pushing the issue? Or is that the only option go for it or regret it later? She ****ed my friend before I knew her and they never dated. So I kind I feel like why should I have to take her on dates and what not to get laid ya know?
Two more question the first goes along with what I just mentioned also for other girls in the future: like I said I am new and trying to learn all the info in the articles. So what can I say to ask a girl out and then what can I say if se rejects me that kind of makes me look better even tho she rejected me?
Final question: what is the best overall summery you could give me that would help me be a confident jerk girls love?
I have a girl that I've been interested in ever since I broke up with my long term gf about a year ago. We madeout at a concert early in last summer. Nothing ever really expanded from there. Not because if rejection as much as me just not wanting to move on from my ex. So basically we talk a little now and then and hangout but I haven't had the balls to actually make a real move because of the fear of rejection and losing thing we might have in my mind if that makes sense? So My question is how can I ask her out or show her I want more without pushing the issue? Or is that the only option go for it or regret it later? She ****ed my friend before I knew her and they never dated. So I kind I feel like why should I have to take her on dates and what not to get laid ya know?
Two more question the first goes along with what I just mentioned also for other girls in the future: like I said I am new and trying to learn all the info in the articles. So what can I say to ask a girl out and then what can I say if se rejects me that kind of makes me look better even tho she rejected me?
Final question: what is the best overall summery you could give me that would help me be a confident jerk girls love?
