"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trd323

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hey whats up guys., I met this chic and we hit it off really well. She has the same sense of humor as I do, she is pretty, we had a good time with each other. I got her number, but when I left her a message to call me, she never did. And also when I text her with some random question she did not respond. So, what the hell happened? should I call her again and leave another message to call me when she is free, or should i just next her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey buddy....well congratulations on coming out of your shell and asking her out, that is an accomplishment buddy, give yourself a pat on the back!

I want to point out, that next time, before you tell a girl to give you her number, set up a date first.....say that you are doing this or that on whatever day, if she agrees to go with you or meet you there, then you get her number just to let her know you are on your way....if she declines your offer, then just move on...

but hey, you stepped out your shell, now just add in this little piece of information, and you will be moving a step further to reaching your goal of being a great don juan...keep em comin buddy!
 

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thanks man, but I did ask her to go to a con cert on sunday, and I wanted to call her to confirm. But now I dont know if I should call her or if I should just wait for her to call me, since I did leave a message that said to call me when she is free.
 

PVSSY-EATER

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Oh okay

Give her one more ring....after that.....will, she should have received some word and if she does not return your call, well, sorry for her, but you are going to have to take your business else where....keep em comin
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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