"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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New girl I just met is a recovering drug addict.. would like some advice.

T-Mack

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I had a bad feeling about this chick when she started mentioning that stuff to me on the second day and I forgot to mention she talked about how she was depressed as well. What a real downer.

The last time I had a bad feeling about a chick and I didn't act on my gut instinct to run! I kept her around like a dummy. To keep the story short I got destroyed in the end! It's not going to happen again. I heard enough and thanks for the advice. I'm running away!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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T-Mack said:
The last time I had a bad feeling about a chick and I didn't act on my gut instinct to run! I kept her around like a dummy. To keep the story short I got destroyed in the end! It's not going to happen again. I heard enough and thanks for the advice. I'm running away!
There is a bigger issue at stake here.

You got to ask yourself: why do I keep attracting those type of girls into my life? am I happy with my life or my life is still in a state of disarray and confusion?!

Just remember this: Quality tends to attract quality. If there is something in your life that needs to be fixed, then you got something to work on.
 
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