"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New girl but ex's stuff still in my house

Mr_GoodGrin

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Hi all, newbie here . Met a great new girl had 5 dates and I want her to come over to my house. My ex GF is still a good friend and I let her keep some
of her stuff here so she does'nt have to pay storage .furniture lamps some pictures really nice stuff I can't afford to go out and buy a bunch of **** so
if my new babe asks 'Where did you get that"? What the hell do I say!!!

Lost for answers
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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powpow

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she's going to ask you, "oh where did you get that lamp"?

probably not

and if she asks, just lie, said a friend gave it to you, friend is keeping it here for storage, got it from your parents, or even you got it on craigslist.

if your lie comes out, the correct answer is that you lied to protect the girls feelings. simple.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Why the hell are you still close with your ex. Who broke up with who?
 
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