"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
New Forum!!!!!!!!!
- Thread starter Bussey
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wow I didn't realize someone would be so anal about something like this..
Grow up man! What your doing is childish, who cares what I post where.
And sometimes one post/vote can make the difference. Seriously tho, if you're that concerned with this, you have some serious mental problems going on...
diablo
Master Don Juan
It's common sense, really. If you had clicked "search", then "titles only", then selected S&F... you would have found the following nine threads already stating this very same thing.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=77903&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
However, you didn't. This is not admirable, but what made you look even worse was coming back on and asking a question that should have been rhetorical. "Why should I search" indeed.
Back to your suggestion, I'll quote Squirrels - this is taken from the third reply in the very first thread you would have found if you had searched - and probably would have prevented you from posting this repeat of a suggestion for a new forum in the first place.
Originally posted by squirrels
There IS a "college forum", it's called "Don Juan Discussion."
There's an exclusive forum for high-schoolers, there's an exclusive forum for older guys. But these are unique situations, socially and sexually, when men AND women are in periods of sexual transition.
I hate to break it to a lot of people, but college isn't exactly all that unique a situation...in fact, it's about the PERFECT situation for the "common DJ ideas".
Everyone thinks that there situation is "special" and mandates "special attention" or some kind of special variation from "the rules." You are NOT beautiful or a unique snowflake. Get over it. Thinking that you need a "special forum" for college is just an excuse for not wanting to or not being able to make use of the EXISTING "Don Juan ideas."
I went through 4 years of college...if you're in college and have been reading and putting to practice the ideas and actions recommended on this site and you STILL haven't gotten laid or at least had the opportunity to get laid...I've got some bad news for ya.