"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New DJ Boot Camp for Autumn

No Bones

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Anyone up for a new DJ Boot Camp beginning September? I reckon we should commence Thursday 22nd, but in any case I'm starting. Anyone up for it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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welcome to my world
actually...edit, I just read this thread (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83930), and it made me think that maybe I should take the next few weeks to get my studies, and my life order back together first...

i've never really attempted the "official" bootcamp, but i will someday

good luck you guys
 
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