"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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glad to be back

Yep I'm back after much delay.

I'm sure this is just a monologue now and no one reads this so i just wanted to say I've been lazy!!! plus computer troubles.. yeah i know no excuse.

But in my absence i have been keeping at it. I got three numbers the other week. I'm doing a date this weekend and I have much less hesiatation to just talk to strangers and/or hotties :)

I'm still just getting used to my seuxality and expressing it. Like having no shame to check out a hot arse but at the same time have some dignity. And by dignity i mean if you check it out you pay her a visit and get the digits.

Did a funny approach on the train the other day!
She was trying to sketch, I ask what shes drawing. She goes on about how she does fashion designing for a hobby. But her page is just about blank. So i ask if i can give some inspiration and end up drawing her some man dressed in womans clothing for a laugh! well it worked! Lucky i drew alot when i was a kid hey, still got some talent left :p
Then as she i was leaving went for the digits but she just went straight out NO. So i go "ok, no mobile thats ok. Whats your home number?" Then shes like
"I have a boyfriend!"
So i do the line "Does that make you married?" and shes like No but if i was He'd be the husband.
So i just thought i tried! and bailed.

Plan to call another girl up tommorow night. I will post how that goes!

Peace out

Mike
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well i got the date setup, but she cancelled at the last minute. She was "working late" haha. So ill giver he one more strike, then thats final.

Havent really went out hunting lately, but its new years eve 2moro see how that goes!
 
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