New and needing to do something about my lovelife

[NeedToImprove]

ok guys i will just make a short presentation and proceed to why im here.

im paulo, 30 and im from Spain, im a loser in what concerns women, im able to socialize around man but with woman thats another story. had only 5 gf in my 30 years of existence, only one serious relationship which lasted exactly 11 months it should have lasted less if i was smarter.


what brings me here? well, im tired of being left behind by girls and seeing them flocking to other guys. im a virgin i dont give a flying **** to those who will criticize me for this, because i need support not bashing, and well im here to understand what makes some guys so successful with the ladies. it kinda sucks when u dont have a gf and they simply ignore you.

what am i doing wrong? why do they see me as weak despite of me not opening my mouth?

what i need i think is a good convo skill which i clearly dont have, or lost somehow. if i talk serious **** with them and dont go too far too soon on them they lack interest, if i talk about dumb stuff they lack interest, if i ask them stuff they simply dont answer...

that happens alot online,some girl adds you to her contacts, says you are cute and doesnt say a thing, you ask stuff about her and she doesnt reply or replies with a yes or a no... i dont know this is pretty ****ing dull and my motivation goes to waste.

you must be asking... you shouldnt be online, yeah right... i tried on the street, in school, at university, come on im 30 im tired of this ****, about being ignored and taken as an invisible guy. yeah i have girls interested in me which i could lay, but they are fat and not attractive so why should i **** them if they dont attract me?

im thinking about hitting the gym too, maybe my body if toned up will open me some doors... yeah right im 30 my body wont bulk up anymore, lets face in a positive way and a negative way... im ****ed!!! so i need you help on what to do, the word that rings in my head the most is clueless

 

[duttylove]

first off read the bible it doesnt sound like you have

secondly change ur attitude, ull go no where whining about *****es that been disrespecting you, ignoring you or what ever. start acting like your the sh!t and no one can stand in your way. you know what you want and your damn well guna get it.

thirdly, realise that you dont need validation from woman, you get validation form your self and your own life, weather your alone or not. i get that you wana f**k, every one does but dont make that your priority.

forthly if i were you because your a virgin and 30, you should nail some hoodrats and club hoes first, just to get your self a bit of experience. in your age bracket your guna come across more woman than girls. woman dont play as many games or at least there more straight forwards in my experience.

make sure you read the bible that should give alot of information you need and answer most of the questions brewing in your head

 

[Docs]

oh, here we go ^^,

Search
Conversation Starting and Building
The DJ Bible - Do the Bootcamp at your own pace, and for the love of life..dont' say 'I can't do xyz', Just Do It
Health and Fitness - Look for beginner stuff.
A List a Fellow DJ Of Things He's Learnt
The 3-Second Rule to Approaching, Sticking to it.
How you should stand with meeting women
Simple Women-Shat Tests Types of Women
Tips - What to do when she blows off plans.

That should be enough to read up on for now.

 

[j8snx1]

Hey man, I can somewhat feel your pain; throughout my middle school, and first 3 years of high school, life was a complete mess. Idiotically, I chased after the women with lack of confidence, lack of social skills, and lack of humor. Obviously, the first few times of me talking to them, they got bored. They went after the other guys, and some didn't even respect the girls. HOW LAME IS THAT?! i thought. But it turns out, those jerks that couldn't treat the ladies right had the confidence, respect, social skills, humor, etc.

My past brings me to this point:

get up off your comfort zone and DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS!

How?
1) Get rid of your pessimistic attitude. Your negativity will force you to masturbate for the rest of your life.

2) Gain your confidence. How you ask? Apply for jobs as a waiter to build up your social skills, or go work out and sculpt your body, use the material SoSuave provides you and go practice it.

3)Let go of the past. Holding grudges from your previous failures will make you depressed and pessimistic. STOP! I ruined myself by dwelling over the past too much, and it's not worth it. You have a fresh start on your life by coming here, so make good use of it.

Erase the past, Draw a new future.