Never initiates Contact

[ghp]

A new Women that ive been seing and we casually dated for 4 ,5 times, physical contact escalated quickly, and whenever were together she dosent get her hands out of me.

Her IL seems high, whenever i ask her out she always accepted so far, and always seems eager.

Anyway what baffles me , is that she never initiates, anything, Call , Sms .

I gone some days without saying anything to see if she initiated something , nothing.

Im confused any idea ?

 

[Dreesy]

It almost sounds as if she's gaming you, probably has her own plates on the side. Where you go from here will depend on how much value she has to you. If you have other plates, then wait for her to drop you the next call, text, or whatever. If she doesn't, then move on.

 

[compleks]

People have different attention spans.
Where it might take you a few days to initiate contact, it might take her a week before she touches base. Especially if she has become reliant on you initiating. She never has to think to contact you, because you have always done that for her.

Don't contact her again. If she is genuinely interested she will get back at you.

 

[Kailex]

Does she still go out with you?
Does she seem high IL when she is out with you?

If "yes", then what's the problem?
This is how dating used to be. You would go out with someone and not talk to them in between and text endlessly or facebook or use the ****ter. You used to talk in between only to set up the next day.

Keep dating her long enough and she'll start initiating.

I don't get why this is rocket science or deserving of such deep analysis. Get back to use when she decides she doesn't want to go out with you anymore or about the fact that she used to put out but not anymore... or anything like that.

But so far, I really don't see the issue. What matters is if she does show up and how she acts when she does. If you have kept your own social life a mystery, she'll start wondering soon enough.

 

[The Duke]

I've been with a few girls that acted this same way. It concerned me as it has you. Eventually I quit worrying about it and just went with it. Her reasons for not initiating had more to do with her timid and slightly insecure personality than not wanting to be with me.

Eventually she came around after she grew comfortable with our relationship and things became more 50/50.

Remember that girls like to be led. Thats what you are doing here. You don't want a girl that tries to lead you!

Also themore you just go with it and stop thinking so much, the more success you will have with women. Always have a couple in the que and live in the moment. You will have lots more fun that way.

 

[Zarky]

might be a cultural thing.. some women have been taught never to initiate anything with men no matter what.

 

[Alvafe]

A new Women that ive been seing and we casually dated for 4 ,5 times, physical contact escalated quickly, and whenever were together she dosent get her hands out of me.

Her IL seems high, whenever i ask her out she always accepted so far, and always seems eager.

Anyway what baffles me , is that she never initiates, anything, Call , Sms .

I gone some days without saying anything to see if she initiated something , nothing.

Im confused any idea ?

some background on her helps also time you spend without contact and how much time you are dating, also if she is the kind shy at home or more party kind. if you don't know anything about it, then just let her as a plate and find more girls to work around