"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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never heard this before

bibby18

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hi, ive been hanging around here for about 6 months and it has really changed my life..i went from having no girls..to having too many girls (if theres such a thing :) ) but anyway i have to come to a point where i think i am over my head and i have to ask a question.

theres this girl that i have been dating for about month now..and now all of sudden..after a very fun sunday..she says she doesnt like me anymore..and doesnt really know why. this has baffled me. one reason is becuase she contacted me at first and was the one to start all the dating..which shows high interest level..also she would talk about the future..like homecomming ect..which again shows super high internest level

i just dont know what happened..i hope some of you can shed some light on this..and maybe give me advice that might help me turn this around (i know thats a long shot)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude, what kind of question is that? NObody here is going to know why she doesnt like you! you dont even know why


good luck:)
 

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yeah wtf was i doing..i guess is what i meant to ask was...is there any way to recover..becuase i really like her..or should i just go NEXT!
 

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dude probably not. I think the best thing you can do now is show her how independent you are and how much it doesn't phase you that she nexted you. She might start seeing what she gave up. Don't whatever you do try to 'win' her back. It won't work.
 

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^^^^^^^ I totally agree, pink.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My best guess is that she is the type of girl that gets easily bored. She saw you as a big challenge, and well, you turned out not to be.
 
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having chicks is like the economy. there's the inflation and deflation factors that go into "womanizing". Not enough and **** is uneven, unstable, unhappy....too much and its too many problems, uneven, unstable and unhappy! he he
 
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