"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never had it so easy

J.R.G.G

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two saturdays ago i stoped in one of those drive-through stores that one dosent need to get down. So this hb8.5 y layed an eye on was busy washing some stuff, so another UG-3 approches me to attend me, i smiled while giving some eye contact to the HB suddenly after doing this she went running to me and asked me if i had a good music CD with me, so i told her that i would lend her a CD if she game me her number, she got my cell phone and entered the dials herself. We talked for no more than 3 mins becaue she was working, but i told her i would call her sometime and that maybe we could go out to do something...


on wenesday i gave her a call, and i was very suprised to her from her mouth that she had been asking her mom every day if i had called her, she told me i took for long to call her... also about the CD... she told me she didnt really wanted a CD that she didnt have another excuse to approach me. And she told me all of that without me asking. When i wanted to hang up cause i need to go to work (night shift) she was all sad and ''aww youre leaving me already''. I was C&F all the conversation, and when she told me that she hadnt had a bf for 2 years because she had rejected many guys i told her i wasnt looking for gf's neither... i guess that got her more interested in me. anyway iam gonna go on date with her, but iam gonna choose when, and that would be after 2006... feels good to be in control.

Apparently shes very into me and iam flattered but at the same time surprised, never had it this easy, almost no effort.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Way

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Man, I wish girls would make excuses to approach me!

You da man
 
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