"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Never, ever think a girl is "out of your league"

stuka1939

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Although this is hard to do and you might believe you are being "humble" and "meek" by not thinking you are good enough for a girl that is real pretty.

It is wrong and delimiting for the following main three reasons.


1.) It automatically puts the woman and attractive women in general on pedestals.

2.) It devalues you own self worth since you are saying "I am not good enough."

3.) Last but certainly not least:

You will be kicking yourself in the ass and hating on yourself for thinking that way in the first place when you see some short, pudgy, balding guy with a big nose walking arm and arm with a cute girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea, something I have realised recently is that a woman's physical attractiveness has little to no effect on whether she will find YOU attractive. When I was an AFC I'd have rated myself like a 5 or 6 in looks, and I'd see a girl above this rating and think, "She's more attractive than me, she won't be interested."

Now I rate myself about an 8, but when I see a 9 or 10, I just think to myself, "It's more than likely that she IS attracted, at least to a certain degree, so go game her."

Just f.uck the whole idea of leagues its so limiting. I'm actually trying to employ a new rating system that I saw on the website that contains the videos I posted on here a while ago. The rest of this post is copied and pasted from www.worthyplayboy.com

0 - I WOULDN'T fcuk 'em.
1 - I COULD fcuk 'em...
2 - I'D LIKE to fcuk 'em!
3 - They wouldn't fcuk me.


This is very elegant in that it requires no external guidelines for definition, needn't be vocalized, and is, of course, completely subjective. In fact, it's pretty-much ingrained into everyone from birth.

HOWEVER, once you reach a certain-level of experience in The Game, and have TRULY established yourself as a Worthy Playboy, you realize that there is NO SUCH THING as a category of people who are unattainable. Oh, there are specific individuals who won't hook up with you, but they might come from the 0 category as readily as the 3's.

So at that point we can, and will, entirely drop the notion of 3's - WHOOMP! Gone.

Now there are only three levels...

Much easier!

Of course, by the time you've reached THAT level, you've also eliminated all memory of 'sexual desperation' - It's so far in your past, you can't even imagine being hard-up for sexual company, or needing to settle for something less than delightful. In fact, you'd much rather sleep alone that go to bed with someone you're not attracted to....

SO we can entirely eliminate the notion of 1's, and then there were two.

VERY simple now, with only two options: YES or NO...

NO - I WOULDN'T fcuk 'em
YES - I'D LIKE to fcuk 'em
 

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Just go for what you like and forget about what they might think.
 
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