"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never Again

troubles1902

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Alright, I read the other post about smelling girls necks. I thought BS at first. But I gave it a try, and I have to say I will never again doubt the posts of others.
Also, Fingz Ten Commandments really put things into perspective for me. I would have never tried to smell her neck cause I was afraid of my sexuality offending someone.
It was then that I realized that I shouldn't have to apologize for being a man.
This was the main reason I remained an AFC so long, girls would literally invite to spank their asses, and I would decline.
Never Again!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jerky Boi

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I can say I don't think I've ever went up to some random girl I didn't even know and smell their neck.
 
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