"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone know of any books about neuroscience or neuropsychology?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sigmund Freud specialized in neurology besides psychoanalysis and the unconcisous.
 

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He probably wants something more recent then Freud.

I don't know about any books, but I can tell you how to find almost any kind of science document you'll ever need. Do a google "advanced search", and on the advanced search page, for the domain put ".edu". That will limit your search results to colleges and universities. Then just type in what you're looking for.
 

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he's right............... trust me books are really expensive.

Check ebay regularly, sometimes u do end up with cheap books.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Does anyone know of any books about neuroscience or neuropsychology?
It's expensive. But if you want a text that a lot of neuroscience professors use as a quick reference, get "Principles of Neural Science," by Kandel, Schwartz, and Jessell. A new hardcover is around 110. A used hardcover might be around 70. Softcover would be even less -- I'd go for that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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