"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fatal Jay

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I encourage a white racist, at least he is not pu$$y about it. Whites who play dumb with there racism are the ones that should get a boot grinded to their spine.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fatal Jay said:
I am a manager, I hired both but you would be lying if you said you wouldn't want your race to be supreme.

I see signs of white supremacy in everything, most whites teach their children white supremacy.

So why is it bad for blacks to teach the same thing. You will be a damn lie if you think all races on this earth is equal.
the reason I asked is because it happened to me. I already said how alot of the managers at my work are black. So I went for this position, and I had more experience and better qualified than the other guy and he got it anyway. I didnt say anything, just went about my business. The manager didn't even tell me to my face WHY I didn't get it like they are supposed to.

Now he walks around with this smug look on his face when I see him like he "held whitey down".

Doesn't even piss me off, I held out and got a position now that I am happier with, but it was an interesting experience.
 

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I don't hire off race. I hire off qualifications but I would be lying if I said I didn't hire a black person because I knew of the person, and yes sometimes it back fired.

My point is, just because I want to uplift my race, doesn't mean I'm a evil man.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
I don't hire off race. I hire off qualifications but I would be lying if I said I didn't hire a black person because I knew of the person, and yes sometimes it back fired.

My point is, just because I want to uplift my race, doesn't mean I'm a evil man.
I don't blame you. I mean face it, black people used to be treated worse than dogs in this country. I can understand black people are pissed. But I had nothing to do with it.
 
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