"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Neil Strauss: The Annihilation Method

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Day 1
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2005/12/the_annihilatio.html

Day 2
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2005/12/the_annihilatio_1.html

Day 3
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2005/12/the_annihilatio_2.html

or as a pdf (without comments from thundercats blog)
http://www.neilstrauss.com/stuff/Annihilation_Report.pdf


So, it looks like Mr. Strauss is going to put out a product (DVD set of the seminar is most likely) before he leaves the seduction community. What are peoples thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Extremely welcome!

I just finished reading his book (The Game) and I totally respect the guy - more power to him!
 

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BTW, sosuave doesnt get a good 'review' by one of the posters (on that second link above) - think he may be right...
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
BTW, sosuave doesnt get a good 'review' by one of the posters (on that second link above) - think he may be right...
can u copy an paste what he said i dont see it.
 

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Julian,

one guy says:

Vice: I've found a few NYC wings through PAIR on fastseduction.com. Also, the Don Juan site http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php has a moderate NY contingency, though I haven't been too impressed with either content or participants there so far.
and another states:

That SoSuave site is pure ****. ****..I rather get on Ross' SS list than get advice from those looney tunes. Only a very few quality guys there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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