"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey man,

dont worry about that, if your skinny then its ok, let me tell you somthing;

a friend and i would always go out together, now my friend, il call him jo, he was about 9 stone and for a guy THATS SKINNY...
we would hit the local bars and dance studios, and he was always the one to get attention, not because of his looks, his money or whatever, it was because of his personality, imagine this,
someone who will always put a smile on your face, make you crack up and bring humor into every situation. he was happy with himself, he didnt have a care in the world, well apart from his domesticated rabbit, but thats irrelevant... he was always the life of the party, he had loads of good mates, and HE was the skinny one, ME on the otherhand, women would consider me a friend, just a friend...

it really goes to show that looks are nothing, its YOU that counts!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Working out at the gym is a start since if your skinny you wont project that feeling of security and protection a woman needs :)
 
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Originally posted by catch
hey man,

dont worry about that, if your skinny then its ok, let me tell you somthing;

a friend and i would always go out together, now my friend, il call him jo, he was about 9 stone and for a guy THATS SKINNY...
we would hit the local bars and dance studios, and he was always the one to get attention, not because of his looks, his money or whatever, it was because of his personality, imagine this,
someone who will always put a smile on your face, make you crack up and bring humor into every situation. he was happy with himself, he didnt have a care in the world, well apart from his domesticated rabbit, but thats irrelevant... he was always the life of the party, he had loads of good mates, and HE was the skinny one, ME on the otherhand, women would consider me a friend, just a friend...

it really goes to show that looks are nothing, its YOU that counts!
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Sorry catch I doubt that will work. Any other suggestions?
 
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Sorry catch I doubt that will work. Any other suggestions?
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ha ha ha, WHY NOT...???
read the health and fitness forum, diesles guide to bulking up!
hit the gym and get big!
 
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CONCLUSION

I have a conclusion on the neg hits

I beleive negs can be used all the time. but the degree of the neg can change depending on who the woman is.

If she is alittle sensitive you can use less harmful negs like:

Me:Hey nice dress or nice pants or nice boots

Her:thanks

Me: yeah there is a girl in here withthe exact same ones.

Her:(Whatever response I dont know how they respond)

If its a girl with a high biatch shield.You can use more aggressive ones

ME:Hi, I like your eyes are they real
Her:no they are lenses
Me: oh well they still ok I guess
Her: Whatever response
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you all think?
 
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hello anyone there?
 
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you better I look foward to seeing what happened ;)
 
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A neg hit creates social isolation. If you understand that, you'll see why neg hits work with certain people.

Im not a big fan of the Mystery Method per say, being that it is too dependent on props, gimickry etc. Most guys arent conversant enough to do neg hitting correctly anyway.

A person with high self esteem isnt likely to be moved by neg hitting. Seductive, hypnotic, rapport building conversation is usually far better for holding and maintaining a person's interest.

Inside of rapport all things are possible, outside of rapport nothing is possible.
 
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