negging?

[jurry]

Sorry to be that guy but what does negging mean? Keep reading that and don't see it explained in the FAQ or anything..

 

[Dgwizdal]

Negging means a subtle verbal diss or disqualifier in order to break rapport and establish higher value.

Depending on the context: they can be used to make a woman think you are not interested in her in order to get her intrigued or just a playful tease during the course of a conversation.

 

[El Payaso]

A playful insult or tease.

 

[Turuwal]

Anything that breaks out of the usual "boy hits on girl" script that the girl has seen a hundred times before and makes her actually notice you. It can be verbal ("those shoes are interesting") or non-verbal (slight look of distraction as she says one of her stock "b!tch shield" lines). Non-verbal negs are probably better since (a) it is less likely that some white knight beta f@ggot or alpha douchebag will have a go at you and (b) verbal negs have been done to death by ten years of PUAs.

 

[Don-Kong]

The best way to neg a girl is to observe and make assumptions. But it opens up conversation to deeper rapport.

For example: make an assumption about her based on how she was treated in childhood. This is a good one.

I can tell you're the middle child. You have that "no one understands me vibe" it's part truth, part rude and part real.

She becomes defensive, aggressive or more playful. The point us to elicit emotion. Stir it up. Get her feeling something.