Would you guys be pissed?
Ok, here is the story, met a girl around 2 years ago, fell in love and was just married about 3 months ago. I thought everything was perfect. A little background, around 1 year or so ago we decided to come clean about everything in our pasts because of some issues we both had. We both promised each other over and over that we had told each other everything about our history, I mean everything. If we were getting married its only right that each other should know. I told her some things I wasnt proud of but felt it was only right I tell her everything. Nothing I told her though had any thing to do with her, it was just stuff in my past.
Ok, now on to the present. I just found out that my wife before we knew each other had in her words "hung out" with a certain guy. Basically this means that they dated and she said they slept together around 20 or 25 times. Now normally this would be no big deal right? I mean we all have had relationships in the past. Here is the kicker though, it turns out that this guy is her best friends brother who I have spent a lot of time hanging out with at parties, weddings, bars...things like that!!!! So basically it means that this whole time everyone knew about this relationship but me!!! He was probably laughing his ass off at me inside knowing he had f%$ed my fiancee and later my wife. That means my wifes best friend knew, her other brothers, EVERYONE!!
Now, its bad enough that she slept with her best friends brother, but then she let me make an ass of myself for the last two years in front of all of them....AND, she continued to lie about it all after we had had many talks about being honest and everything and that we had told each other everything!! I feel like I have been stabbed in the heart...I cant believe she knew this all this time and let me go on like a total fool. Am I wrong to feel upset about this? What are you your opinions? Thanks
Ok, here is the story, met a girl around 2 years ago, fell in love and was just married about 3 months ago. I thought everything was perfect. A little background, around 1 year or so ago we decided to come clean about everything in our pasts because of some issues we both had. We both promised each other over and over that we had told each other everything about our history, I mean everything. If we were getting married its only right that each other should know. I told her some things I wasnt proud of but felt it was only right I tell her everything. Nothing I told her though had any thing to do with her, it was just stuff in my past.
Ok, now on to the present. I just found out that my wife before we knew each other had in her words "hung out" with a certain guy. Basically this means that they dated and she said they slept together around 20 or 25 times. Now normally this would be no big deal right? I mean we all have had relationships in the past. Here is the kicker though, it turns out that this guy is her best friends brother who I have spent a lot of time hanging out with at parties, weddings, bars...things like that!!!! So basically it means that this whole time everyone knew about this relationship but me!!! He was probably laughing his ass off at me inside knowing he had f%$ed my fiancee and later my wife. That means my wifes best friend knew, her other brothers, EVERYONE!!
Now, its bad enough that she slept with her best friends brother, but then she let me make an ass of myself for the last two years in front of all of them....AND, she continued to lie about it all after we had had many talks about being honest and everything and that we had told each other everything!! I feel like I have been stabbed in the heart...I cant believe she knew this all this time and let me go on like a total fool. Am I wrong to feel upset about this? What are you your opinions? Thanks