"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need to let off steam

hungry_american

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I have never felt like such a moron in my life. I put everything Ive ever learned in life and from this website and my best friends trying to beat the obvious into my head. My stupid ass fell for a girl still in school a junior at some christian school and her stupid ass was all sayin she was in love and I took her vcard then i dumped her later on (4th of july) thenn her ass says she wants me back and leads me to her cousins house who threatens me with a ****ing gun .. guamanians.. oh so thats the worst that can happen right. MY dumbass goes back out with her after that and now shes being annoying and calling me all the time askin who im with and then shes hanging out with this ****ing marine all the time now.... never again those stupid yougn *****es.... :cuss: :kick:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Swede54

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man thats a crazy *****. Ive had crazies like that too tho.
 
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