"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need something to impress here to distinguish me from the others

merbi101

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Hallo, i'm in high school now and have a problem with a girl i really like she's a total 10 and gets many attetion of guys and is very picky and reject most of the guys now sometimes i have class with her and say something to her and we laugh about some things. now i went out and she gave me pretty much attention and used some kino and she didnt have problems with it of me atleast becouse i see when other guys touch her she gets a face like get off me... now of my story you can read its a girl thats very hard to impress and i need to have something that will impress her so bad that she will distinguish me from other men for ever.

Does anyone know how i can do something that will distinguish me for ever from the other basic guys?

thanks in advance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Joshski

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Be confident. Show her that you can be sexual around her. Do extracurricular activities (sports, bands, etc.) and be in good shape. Expand your social circle. Just don't give her too much attention. You don't want to chase her, you want her to chase you.

When you talk with her, be mysterious to keep her on her toes. Good luck.
 

NorwegianDJ

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She wont chase you. You're an AFC. Better to realize that now than later. You don't want to impress girls. There are so many other things that you rather should. But the most important thing is to be congruent with it. To do that, you have to get a solid inner game. Get confident, real self-esteem, dont enhance your ego with tips n tricks. I might post later when I got more time.
 

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What Norwegian said. To be a true DJ I think you need to realize that she should be after you, and if she doesn't want it, then forget her. Who cares what she thinks? She's just another girl out of millions in the world. So just grab your balls and go for it, and if you mess up, no big deal.
 
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