"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some young guys advice.

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I am excited about starting a Men's Group here locally, which includes at local military base with many young and older men who can benefit from a good Men's Group. We are starting it next month, but we are having a hard time deciding on a name for the group. One that will attract men to get together and discuss the challenges of being men, how to improve yourself, etc. We are really excited.

We wanted to call the group: "True Grit Alpha", but some of us were concerned some might not know what true grit means, especially younger guys.

Is this the case, does True Grit resonant with you all?

Other names we came up with are below. If anyone has any input please let me know. I want to maximize the participation with the group. We appreciate it.

Men's Group Names:

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The Foundation Men

The Foundation Man

Core Men

The Daily Man

Man by definition

Self Confident Alpha

Kindred Men

The Foundation Alpha

Furtherance Men’s Group

Alpha Decoded

Decoding Alpha

The Alpha Creed

Unveiling Alpha

The Awakened Alpha

The Alpha Unleashed

The Resurrected Alpha

Alpha Resurrected

The Valuable Alpha

Inner Alpha Male

The Take Charge Alpha

Just the Right Alpha

The Authentic Alpha

All Things Manly

The Unapologetic Alpha

Alpha Pursued

Embracing Your Alpha

The Purposeful Alpha

The Honorable Alpha

The Mature alpha

The Mature Man
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr.Migraine

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True Grit is nice, but something along the lines of Molon Labe resonates with me a lot more.
 
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