"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need some words of WISDOM

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How would i get past all the walls a chick puts up to build stronger connections with that person, so i will be one of the few that actually understands her to make me be more important to her (as well as stand out) and not join the club of guys drooling over her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

jeffthechef

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most girls,...unless they have serious issues dont need a guy that "understands her"
that's afc crap

if you're dealing with a girl w/ issues...disregard what i'm about to say...but i think you're dealing with the average girl

Girls want one thing.
FUN...and FUN=Emotion
Emotions=sad/happy/excited/scared/confused/loved

How do you stand out?
Be a Man, and you'll stand out. Most HS guys are the same...they act/talk/walk/etc. the same way. Then, you'll notice there are some guys who stand out for their own reasons. They're the guys pulling chicks...Some are passionate abotu sports or art...some dress well...some dress casually

But why do these few pull chicks? Because they're men. They exemplify what SS preaches. They dont get mixed up in petty **** like cliques, gossip, etc...They're busy with schoolwork, extracurriculars, friends, family, girls...They have things going on...

AND HERE'S THE KEY

THEY DON'T ASK THEMSELVES, "HOW DO I STAND OUT?" THEY NATURALLY DO, WITHOUT EFFORT OR THOUGHT.

Don't think about how to get girls...Think about how to improve as a man, and girls will no longer be a problem. Why? because men are better at interactive with women and men...Both sexes gravitate towards MEN, because MEN exude Testosterone and good vibes.
 

aloharuiz

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Show some motives that you like her, make some effort to make her feel special but don't exaggerate. Just be yourself all the way. Be cool and natural. This might catch her attention because most girls like honest, sincere and thoughtful person, rather than arrogant and show-off. If she'll notice that, you'll have the chance. Good luck :)
 
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