"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some postive thoughts my way

G Rambo34

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When is it going to end? My bad luck that is. im trying to stay optomistic but i just keep having the worst luck and getting with the wrong girls. i always end up with sluts who just like to have fun. and dont get me wrong theres nothing wrong with that, but im sick of that and moved on. i really want a relationship and to fall in love with that all around girl. i always end up finding the girls who have boyfriends, or the girls who just like partying. have any of you guys been there? im sick of this bad luck and getting jammed up every friday and saturday night. please give me some good words. thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SinJester

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It's not 'bad luck'. A victim mindset is never the right way to think. It does you no good whatsoever. If she isn't the right girl next her and find a new one. Try out new types of girls, quiet or smart girls, whatever.

Your also putting way to much emphasis on having a girl. I recently broke my leg, do you really think you care a whole lot about girls when you can't walk?
 
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