"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some motivation!

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firat of all i hav a very bad problem which is tht i always like to win....this makes the fear of rejection even greater......how do u guys overcome the anxiaty of not getting results fast.....its only been like 2 months sunce u started to change and i hav seen a great improvement in my social life regarding female friends..........i need some motivation guys
Spring break is here so any ideas of what should i do.......remember i am only 15 and i am not free to go every where i want to...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey bro,

firat of all i hav a very bad problem which is tht i always like to win....
This is not really a problem... this is actually great that you have a winners mentality.

What you need to do... is set yourself up so you can win every time.

So when you go out... make it your goal to approach say 3 girls... and if you approach... YOU WIN... doesn't matter if you get blown out... it doesn't matter what happens... as long as you approach... then slowly... start setting your goals a little higher...

maybe next time... approach 3 girls... and try and get them attracted to you...

go in small steps... and eventually you will get there while have a good time.

keep going man you are doing great for 15...
 

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thnks man....i owe my winner mentality to playing soccer and when doing tricks with the ball i see how girls want to talk to me and want me to show them how i do all the tricks....
 
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