alphajosh22
New Member
Alright guys i need some help. okay heres the thing. i have noticed that once i get involved with a girl, i have a tendency to get emotionally attached, rather quickly. It only happens with girls who i see as girlfriend material. If its a girl im just trying to lay, i won't do it. For example, i this last chick that i was seeing, i met her in january. We started out really casually cause i didn't want to get inot anything serious. anyways we emailed and talked on the phone regulary but we didn't really get to spend a lot of time together, i would see her maybe once or twice a month at the most. anyways last week she got kicked out of the place she was staying at, and since she has no family out here in california, she was forced to move out with her brother and uncles in arizona. I am super frustrated at myself, becuase i feel like i just got out of a 5 year relationship, when this chick wasn't even my girl!! The last girl that i dated before her, same ****. we dated for about 6 months and i swear it took me about 1 or 2 months to get over. I have noticed that it seems to happen only with girls who i qualify as gf material. How can i stop this? If anyone has gone through this or knows about it, i would greatly appreciate your advice, or suggestions. Like i said, its almost seems like as soon as i start to qualify them as potential gf's i let my guard down.