"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need some help with kino here and one other thing

MiKe23

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Ok so I have 2 questions

1. How do I use kino on a girl in school in the courtyard when there are a bunch of people around. I just feel really uncomfortable when people are just watching me work my magic on some girl. Whats the best way to use kino in this situation?

2. Her birthday is this weekend...I may be over analyzing but shes pretty excited about her birthday. What im wondering is should I get her a present? Like I know this is stupid, but im afraid if i get her a present shes gonna think im just some guy she can use. And if I should get her a present, what would be the best thing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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08aisaac

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So like if you get her a gift, it wouldn't be weird because it is her B-Day. IDK about the kino. lol. I don't really think about it.
 

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Solution for problem #1: The best way to pull some kino is with confidence. Sounds like you could use a little. I reccomend you read up on it in the DJ bible.

Solution for problem #2: Get her a funny, cheap joke present. My freind bought his girlfreind a canned chicken. She loves him to no end and he didn't spend any more than 3 dollars and got one hell of a laugh out of it.
 
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Solution for problem #1: The best way to pull some kino is with confidence. Sounds like you could use a little. I reccomend you read up on it in the DJ bible.

Solution for problem #2: Get her a funny, cheap joke present. My freind bought his girlfreind a canned chicken. She loves him to no end and he didn't spend any more than 3 dollars and got one hell of a laugh out of it.
ANSWER NUMBER 1:__IF ur in a crowd N you happen to be walkin with her in the same direction just give her a little shuve make sure shes bout to hit some1 or an object* dont acualy wait till your real close then push her becuase then ull acualy push up into somthing and we dont want that!" Usualy i would push her *pretendin im tryin to really push her into whatever was in the way or walkin by. Girls love this theyll be like"You was tryin to push me into that wall/ trashcan/door!!"
Then you can put your hand around her shoulder n pull her closer to you and just say somthing simple NOT A SORRY BUt something sincere like" you should have seen your reaction and the weird face you made!...aww it was so cute!"

NUMBER2:-- plan something fun out like a night out its just gonna be u and her 2 freinds(or so thats what we want her to think) then u can be romantic then u can make your move on her on the date.Make up an excus like its her birthday and u feel like you need to take her out. Take her fishin, golfin, hikin anything, just use your imagination! "tell her like you want to give her a give that she will never forget! but its not somthing you can touch but you can hold on 2 forever!(talkin bout the memery of you screwin her after the date here lol)
if she dont want to then its becuase you were confident enough or not enough smilin(dont overdue the smilin) but if she dont like it make fun of her like shes not ready for somthing fun and she always want to be round the house all borin and stuff. if she agree then take her out, just dont go to dumb ole movies on her birthday unless you got some of your freinds that set something special up when you guys get there. You can throw in a present on that date if you want 2! personaly i would give her a canned chicken lol but thats just becuase im eager to see how she would react but if u like her then it might not be wise to give her the "canned chicken"
 
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Go with the canned chicken!:D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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