FWB is great until you care about the chick. I had a few that came to a crashing halt when I got too into the relationships. With some distance I'm starting to see that any girl who is cool with FWB is a little off and pretty slutty. Have your fun but keep your emotional distance; these women don't get close to anyone. It's their character flaw, and not your problem. You are free to walk away... and do. They aren't used to guys who don't beg them to stay.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Need some help here. Feel like my heart is in pieces.
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