"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some guidance

Wutermelon

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Sup guys,

I just need guidance involving a potential girl.

I met her in a club dance at school. She just saw me walking around, introduced herself, and asked me to dance. I obliged, and proceeded to spend most of the night together dancing and talking. We kissed a couple of times in which she initiated the majority of them and then asked to exchange numbers. Through our conversation I found out that she was going to do a walk for a charity that I happened to be going to. After it was over (I didn't see her at all during the walk) I figured I'd shoot her a text to see how interested she was and she responded within 10 minutes. This was on Sunday.

So, I'm feeling pretty good about this. I also found out through her that my fraternity and her sorority are doing another charity walk and then afterwards will be doing a day-party together. After finding out about this I figured I didn't really need to set up something with her before the party (Plus I'm busy as hell with midterms and work).

I'm just wondering at this point, should I just wait to see her on Saturday (day of walk/party) without any contact at all or should I once again initiate contact before Saturday to keep fresh in her mind?

My plan was to not initiate contact because she would probably do it before or on Saturday since it seems she is highly interested and then take it from there.

As you can see I'm clearly inexperienced in this aspect of my life, haha. It's only been recently where I've been seeing success with women and it's going to take some getting used to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ACE2012

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You have to be proactive about and take the lead in my opinion. You want her, you gotta go get her. Never assume anything because if you wait too long, then poof, goes your chances. You should just strike while the iron is hot. Definitely wouldn't hurt to call her and see what her plans or whatnot. That way, you can gauge a bit better on whether or not she's really interested.
 
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