"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need some decent input from some guys with wisdom.

Dezidarko

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Thanks to the people who had decent replies.

and yeah i decided to just give her the bond and move on with my life, take it as an experiance and learn from the mistakes.

i have a battle to fight , the longest and hardest battle il ever have to fight , the battle with the afc inside me.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Dezidarko

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delete this thread plix........................................................................................................................
 
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delete this thread plix........................................................................................................................
 
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Da Realist

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Truthfully I'd just give her the bond and not try to talk her into a relationship with you. You had a chance to get her before you lost the weight, but you messed up when you started acting like it was mistake you liked her. The reason she moved out was because she didn't know if you were a potential lover or a friend. It's best to just leave her alone, take it as a loss, and date around.
 

decades

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this is so EMO.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74

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Move on.
Hit the wieghts and start lifting hard.
Go meet some other girls.
 

Interceptor

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Seems to me you're trying to 'salvage' a situation with logic. And with a female who isnt interested in you.

This is severe oneitis here.


You need to pull the needle out and get your life together.
 

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F.uck her then decide whether you want to be with her or not.
If she doesn't want to f.uck you cut her lose.
Its a win-win
 
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