need some advice

[brownlover]

well I did the challenge lol. Heres how my day went

First went to a sports shop to get some gym gear. Chatted to the sales assistant who was a bloke lol. Well got to start somewhere.

Then i went to a perfume store and chatted to a sales assistant. she was really cool, she helped me choose 3 fragrances that smelled good on me. also told me to return another because it smelled really bad on me.

Then at the counter i was waiting at the store and saw an attractive australian lady. heres how this conversation went.

Me: Its far too busy in this place
She: yes i been waiting for ages

Me: how has your day been
She: Xmas shopping its expensive

Me: I need your opinion on a fragrance I am going to get
She: Sure

Me: made her small my hands and she told me exactly what the sales assistant told me.

Then: I thanked for the advice.

Me: I asked her what she was doing after this.
She:going back to her flat with her flat mate to watch a dvd

Me: I'd like to take you out sometime. Can I have you number
She. awwww thats so sweet. I have a b/f thanks you

ME: ok. thanks very much for the fragrance advice.

duh lol. would love an opinion on that.

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it was wierd i didn't care she said. i was expecting it. I was going to get a coffee. but then i thought i should go to a bookstore with a coffee place. so i did

I sat next to a not so attractive girl (4-6) and then we talked about yoga, her studies and stuff. I told her i was going to do yoga and all that stuff.

Well she ended the conversation saying she had to go. then I said its ok I am going as well. so left with her. I then got lucky she said goodbye but then came back to see a book. Then i asked her if she wanted to go out and have some fun. Can i have a number. dang it was a yes

she is a 5 but i guess i'm in condition to see a 10 yet lol. so i guess its deciding what to do next.

Then i felt condfident so I went up to another girl and chatted to her. and asked her number she said she had a b/f downstairs. then i chatted to another girl but she didn't want to chat.

well that was my sunday.

hurrrayyyy I have got my first ever pohone number. she's not britney spears but i guess you got to start somewhere.

 

[Chrisman]

See it's not that hard. Just need to keep the negative thoughts behind you and the positive ones in front of you.

 

[Desdinova]

Good job! Just keep at it and it will get easier.

 

[brownlover]

I have signed up fo some speed dating nights. I thought it would be good just get some practice seen as though I have no wingman. any opinions on it

 

[Chrisman]

I think it's great. It's a great way to talk test things. Never look at it like you're putting yourself on the line or something. Look at it as a learning experience. Try things out. And most importantly, have fun with it.

 

[L777]

Originally posted by mobius
Seeing your from London (not London, Ontario I suppose), the girls here would go crazy for your British accent.

is that right? Im english and have quite a deep voice, i reckon i might give north america a try


o yea, dont worry about being a virgin dateless, wotever....just read sum stuff on this site, and DO it, no matter if it makes u feel embarassed,....after all girls dont know ur a virgin on that you feel a **** for doing approaches and stuff.....its really not that heard when u get into it