There this girl that I like very much adn we have gone out a couple times so that I can get to know her better. The thing is that I went to school with and we haven't seen each other in about 17 yrs. Today she broke her silence and told me that she has gotten back with her ex. I still have felling for her my question is should I tell her the way I fell about her or should I just drop the hole thing and forget about her and move on.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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