"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Need some advice please.

C

Commissar

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Alright so I'm relatively new to this site, but I think I'm picking it up quickly and advancing. I've read the bible and have the basics down.

Anyways, I've been working on this girl at school for a few days and I'm pretty sure she is interested. She's giving me the IOI's and now I think it's time to go in for the kill.

My question is, how should I go about doing this without asking her on a date, I just want to hook up with her and see where it goes from there. Any suggestions on when, where, or how would be great. Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

G

goldenrocker91

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2006
Messages
85
Reaction score
0
well do you have mutual friends? if u do just suggest that you all hang out sometime. its not a date and its not threatening. if she says yes and u guys hang out try and hook up with her then
 
C

Commissar

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Yeah we do but the problem is I never get her alone, and she wouldn't do it with people watching.
 
A

ARrocket

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2008
Messages
1,411
Reaction score
37
Location
East Coast USA
You can find a reason to get her alone....ask her to walk you to your locker or something. lol. Before or after class, before or after school, you'll find a chance.
 
Bible_Belt

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,589
Reaction score
6,377
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Have her tag along when you are doing something that you would already be doing anyway. Keep her guessing about whether or not you like her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top