"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need some advice guys

kidkoala

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Hey everyone! I'm brand new to this site. However I have been doing extensive research and putting into practice information on the subject of girls. There is this one girl that I got introdice to about two weeks ago. This Wednesday i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she said "maybe if i have time" and today i asked her if her weekend was free and she said she had a bunch of projects and was busy. Which i believe because she is a gourgeous genius. Anyhow, I find myself filled with self doubt in between. It really doesn;t help that when i pass her in the halls she just smiles doesn;t really say hi. ANd today i saw her and she saw me but she quickly whipped her head around. So my questions are: Does she like me? Is she playing hard to get? ANd even if in your opinion she doesn;t like me shouldn't i just ask her to do something again next week and take my chances cuz u never know what's going to happen. Thanks guys, I'm really working on this hard, and have just reached a minor impasse that I will overcome.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Forget about her.

If you really want, ask her out again. If she says no, totally next her.
 

Layla

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Sorry- double post.
 

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Well she seems like a genuinly busy person. I guess i get really thrown off by eye contact thing. But seems to me that is mostly self-doubt and when we speak it flows naturally
 

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Sorry to say buddy but from what i see she doesn't like you, but ask her for next weekend. Couldnt hurt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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