"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm good brother, theres stuff i've been putting off forever that i'm taking care of right now but yeah actually i've been thinking about taking up golfing for awhile now and I keep hearing about this meetup.com thing so maybe i'll check it out. That is still a sticking point most of the friends I grew up with are married so there's not a lot of "guys nights out" anymore. I think that's where my social life decayed so much, everyone got married and moved on lol

I do need to make some new single friends to start hanging out with but i'm in no rush, just getting my own life and thoughts in order right now. I'm definitely in a much better place than I was before and everything else will come with time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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