Here's the deal. I have recently started seeing a girl I have known for a while but wasnt very close to. We get together about one every week or two, Ill usually go to her place and we will cook something or whatever then hang out for a while. I'm pretty sure I havent crossed into the friends zone yet, but I know if i dont do something soon Ill be there. My problem is I havent dated anyone in a few years and I dont know how to move from just talking about the weather more or less to getting to a place where I can kiss her. So how should I go about moving forward?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Need some advice about avoiding the friends zone
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It takes time to learn these things but i'll give you a few quick pointers I like.
Make the conversation fun, friendly and light (don't come across as being too serious), it's not an interview! Another tip I like is to treat the girl like a child. Not saying treat them as thought they are stupid but reward them for good behaviour and have a laugh with them.
Act like a man and don't act as if shes too good for you.
Make the conversation fun, friendly and light (don't come across as being too serious), it's not an interview! Another tip I like is to treat the girl like a child. Not saying treat them as thought they are stupid but reward them for good behaviour and have a laugh with them.
Act like a man and don't act as if shes too good for you.
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The number one rule is NEVER TALK TO A GIRL WITHOUGH KINO. You always must be kino escalating. I will link you to an excellent article to get you to the next level as fast as possible nooby...
Give credit to mehow and mystery for this one gents
-PureKino™ Attraction-
I really love our tech team. They rock. They made this shiny new blog and the online content delivery system for all of our products! From one computer geek to another, mad respect!
They are all married though so only half my stuff applies to them. But this 'first ever new blog entry' goes out to them anyway!!!
I know that most readers have very little time to read a blog and I wanted to make this first blog special so I'm going to teach you what I would teach someone if I only had 15 minutes to improve their game. The stuff I would teach a student if I could only teach them one thing.
A lot of people ask me, "What is PureKino Attraction?" So far I've been dodging the question while all the patent paperwork got filed. But all that stuff is done now so here it is. There is A LOT to this approach but don't worry, because I will give you everything you need to know to start DOING this stuff INFIELD TONIGHT.
Let me start by telling you how PureKino came about. Back when I was a newbie at this - I was very high energy. So high energy that I was essentially, a mid 30s, balding, pale, dancing monkey, when I would enter into a set. I would get a lot of spikey attraction and sometimes get the girl by using this to isolate and then do the real work in comfort.
Back in those days I was rolling a lot with my good friend and wing, Lovedrop from Venusian Arts.
Lovedrop always had some sort of secret plan that he wouldn't tell me about until right when he sprung it on me in terms of getting me to the next level.
So one night when my dancing monkey was particularly acting up he followed me around the club telling me to be 'chill' constantly.
When I did that half my sets didn't hook at all and walked away wondering how a dork like me even got into such a swanky establishment and the other half of the sets would hook super hard.
So being chill made things solid IF IT HOOKED but otherwise I lost the set.
Back to the drawing board. Clearly hooking only half the time wasn't acceptable.
I started to think about what are the most powerful attraction mechanisms available to us in a purely theoretical sense?
Here is what I came up with
-Super tight 'I live on planet Mehow and it's a wild and fun place to be' sub-communications.
-Touching, lots of touching (kino) and compliance.
I learned this from being in field a ton - I noticed that when I did those things sets seemed more solid.
So then I started to think about how I could just run the entirety of attraction just by doing those two things and PureKino was born.
I call it that because with PureKino you can literally run an entire attraction phase entirely by touching and verbal plowing about whatever.
If you can get a large amount of touching and compliance in attraction you can effectively maximize the amount of "chill" you can bring into your game. This, along with excellent subcommunications, will allow you to win over sets with a great consistency. The result is super tight attraction.
You are going to have to make one pretty big leap of faith to get going with this stuff:
Forget DHV stories in attraction. In fact, for the sake of the exercise I'm about to give you - forget purely verbal routines. Period.
Yup, you can get TONS of SOLID attraction from women without FLIPPING a single traditional DHV switch (protector of loved ones, leader of men, pre-selection). Btw, I love DHV stories in comfort but I only use them in attraction when I can't get logistics on kino.
Yup it's that easy - all you have to do is touch all of the women in a set while running your mouth and let your 'I live on MY planet and it's a WILD and FUN place to be' sub-communications do the rest. Did I just say 'Touch all the women in the set?' Yes, yes I did. That probably sounds scary to many of you. But I'm about to show you a way to do it that is easy and fun.
The best thing about PureKino is that the material teaches you how to BECOME WILD AND FUN. Then all the sudden you find yourself with super-ninja FUN skills that you can easily improvise at any moment. With that kind of energy; you can bring all of your other pickup skills to new levels as well. Hello exponential game growth.
The simple way to use this:
1. Open Direct to Group with a False Time Constraint.
2. Super playfully neg a target (secret to never getting this wrong contained below).
3. Do one or two PureKino Attraction routines.
4. Isolate and go into comfort.
Most of you are familiar with opinion openers and negging and then stacking to DHV stories because most of you know Mystery's method. So I'm giving you the easiest way to take what you know and use PureKino Attraction.
This is really simple. So simple you probably figured it out already from the above 4 bullet points. You substitute a direct to group opener for the opinion opener, you substitute your regular neg for something very playful, you substitute PureKino attraction for DHV stories and BLAMO .. you have girls all into you without them knowing a single fact about you.
Here is an example with each phase numbered. This example is best on an all girl 2 set.
Me: "You guys seem fun, I had to come over here and say hi .. for a sec!" (1) - w light brief touching of the set right on the opener. Do this with direct body language. Just walk up, touch while you start talking. I changed my approach rule from '3 seconds' to '1 second' to facilitate this.
Set: "Hi!"
Me: "Oh Oh! THIS Girl .. you must have been .. the CUTEST .. hall monitor in middle school!" (2)
Set: "Ya .. she was!"
Easy enough so far, right? Before we continue I have to tell you a secret to number 2. Change your neg from a straight neg like 'Don't make me come down there' to something that unmistakably sub-communicates playfulness and changes your OWN STATE to a playful one. You do this by negging with an IOI (Indicator of Interest) followed by an IOD (Indicator of Disinterest) so its like a push /pull (you can also do IOD/IOI). This way it's just about impossible to miss-calibrate and make a girl furious at you. Just use an IOI before the usual negs you use like 'You are totally fun .. but don't make me come down there and discipline you!' or 'OK .. those nails are totally amazing .. how did a space alien like you figure out how to put them on?'
Now we continue with this particular PureKino routine which I call 'Group 3-7'
Me: "How long have you guys known each other?"
Set: "A while!"
Me: "Did you know that you guys could be psychic together?"
Set: "What?"
Me: "For ****s and giggles were are going to find out if you guys are psychic together."
Set: "Ok!"
Me: "Give me your hands!"
Set gives me their hands.
Me: "For this to work you guys have to hold hands as well."
Set and I are now all holding hands. This is the point btw. I'm doing all this stuff to get a lot of totally un-creepy touching going in the first 30 seconds of the set. ALL I DO IS RUN MY MOUTH TO GET KINO AND COMPLIANCE.
Me: "Now we have formed a .. psychic circle."
I move their hands around slowly while holding them to give it a fun mystical sense and sub-communicate that I'm messing with them and having fun. (Key Point! Having Fun)
Me: "Ok .. I want both of you to think of a number between 1 TWO .. 4 .. the first number that pops into your mind .. but don't say anything." (I let go of their hands as I'm doing this and I snap my fingers right when I would have said the number 3 .. then I grab their hands again). See I'm touching, letting go, touching, letting go. Is this sinking in?
Me: (hold their hands extra firmly) "Ok .. you guys clearly got the number in your minds, right?"
Set: "Yes." (more compliance)
Me: "Ok .. now .. girl on my left .. what number were you thinking?"
Girl on left: "3."
Set: "OMG! We are psychic together!"
Lots of hugging ensues and I let go of their hands and go to next PK routine or something different entirely.
Frequently you have enough attraction right there to have your wing come in and isolate with your target if it's a 2 set. Sometimes you need another PureKino routine.
For this particular routine if one of the girls says some other number, you can handle it just like Mystery taught me for regular 3-7 with "See .. that is empirical proof that ESP is bull****."
The verbals don't really matter - you don't need to have a psychic test - all you need is the kino and compliance and good sub-communications.
The best thing about this is that there are literally thousands of possible routines to use. This entire approach has been massively field tested by myself and my students and resulted in many wonderful relationships.
Enjoy and post all of the amazing new PureKino routines YOU GUYS INVENT in my forum at www.mehow.tv/forum in the Kino section.
-mehow
Give credit to mehow and mystery for this one gents
-PureKino™ Attraction-
I really love our tech team. They rock. They made this shiny new blog and the online content delivery system for all of our products! From one computer geek to another, mad respect!
They are all married though so only half my stuff applies to them. But this 'first ever new blog entry' goes out to them anyway!!!
I know that most readers have very little time to read a blog and I wanted to make this first blog special so I'm going to teach you what I would teach someone if I only had 15 minutes to improve their game. The stuff I would teach a student if I could only teach them one thing.
A lot of people ask me, "What is PureKino Attraction?" So far I've been dodging the question while all the patent paperwork got filed. But all that stuff is done now so here it is. There is A LOT to this approach but don't worry, because I will give you everything you need to know to start DOING this stuff INFIELD TONIGHT.
Let me start by telling you how PureKino came about. Back when I was a newbie at this - I was very high energy. So high energy that I was essentially, a mid 30s, balding, pale, dancing monkey, when I would enter into a set. I would get a lot of spikey attraction and sometimes get the girl by using this to isolate and then do the real work in comfort.
Back in those days I was rolling a lot with my good friend and wing, Lovedrop from Venusian Arts.
Lovedrop always had some sort of secret plan that he wouldn't tell me about until right when he sprung it on me in terms of getting me to the next level.
So one night when my dancing monkey was particularly acting up he followed me around the club telling me to be 'chill' constantly.
When I did that half my sets didn't hook at all and walked away wondering how a dork like me even got into such a swanky establishment and the other half of the sets would hook super hard.
So being chill made things solid IF IT HOOKED but otherwise I lost the set.
Back to the drawing board. Clearly hooking only half the time wasn't acceptable.
I started to think about what are the most powerful attraction mechanisms available to us in a purely theoretical sense?
Here is what I came up with
-Super tight 'I live on planet Mehow and it's a wild and fun place to be' sub-communications.
-Touching, lots of touching (kino) and compliance.
I learned this from being in field a ton - I noticed that when I did those things sets seemed more solid.
So then I started to think about how I could just run the entirety of attraction just by doing those two things and PureKino was born.
I call it that because with PureKino you can literally run an entire attraction phase entirely by touching and verbal plowing about whatever.
If you can get a large amount of touching and compliance in attraction you can effectively maximize the amount of "chill" you can bring into your game. This, along with excellent subcommunications, will allow you to win over sets with a great consistency. The result is super tight attraction.
You are going to have to make one pretty big leap of faith to get going with this stuff:
Forget DHV stories in attraction. In fact, for the sake of the exercise I'm about to give you - forget purely verbal routines. Period.
Yup, you can get TONS of SOLID attraction from women without FLIPPING a single traditional DHV switch (protector of loved ones, leader of men, pre-selection). Btw, I love DHV stories in comfort but I only use them in attraction when I can't get logistics on kino.
Yup it's that easy - all you have to do is touch all of the women in a set while running your mouth and let your 'I live on MY planet and it's a WILD and FUN place to be' sub-communications do the rest. Did I just say 'Touch all the women in the set?' Yes, yes I did. That probably sounds scary to many of you. But I'm about to show you a way to do it that is easy and fun.
The best thing about PureKino is that the material teaches you how to BECOME WILD AND FUN. Then all the sudden you find yourself with super-ninja FUN skills that you can easily improvise at any moment. With that kind of energy; you can bring all of your other pickup skills to new levels as well. Hello exponential game growth.
The simple way to use this:
1. Open Direct to Group with a False Time Constraint.
2. Super playfully neg a target (secret to never getting this wrong contained below).
3. Do one or two PureKino Attraction routines.
4. Isolate and go into comfort.
Most of you are familiar with opinion openers and negging and then stacking to DHV stories because most of you know Mystery's method. So I'm giving you the easiest way to take what you know and use PureKino Attraction.
This is really simple. So simple you probably figured it out already from the above 4 bullet points. You substitute a direct to group opener for the opinion opener, you substitute your regular neg for something very playful, you substitute PureKino attraction for DHV stories and BLAMO .. you have girls all into you without them knowing a single fact about you.
Here is an example with each phase numbered. This example is best on an all girl 2 set.
Me: "You guys seem fun, I had to come over here and say hi .. for a sec!" (1) - w light brief touching of the set right on the opener. Do this with direct body language. Just walk up, touch while you start talking. I changed my approach rule from '3 seconds' to '1 second' to facilitate this.
Set: "Hi!"
Me: "Oh Oh! THIS Girl .. you must have been .. the CUTEST .. hall monitor in middle school!" (2)
Set: "Ya .. she was!"
Easy enough so far, right? Before we continue I have to tell you a secret to number 2. Change your neg from a straight neg like 'Don't make me come down there' to something that unmistakably sub-communicates playfulness and changes your OWN STATE to a playful one. You do this by negging with an IOI (Indicator of Interest) followed by an IOD (Indicator of Disinterest) so its like a push /pull (you can also do IOD/IOI). This way it's just about impossible to miss-calibrate and make a girl furious at you. Just use an IOI before the usual negs you use like 'You are totally fun .. but don't make me come down there and discipline you!' or 'OK .. those nails are totally amazing .. how did a space alien like you figure out how to put them on?'
Now we continue with this particular PureKino routine which I call 'Group 3-7'
Me: "How long have you guys known each other?"
Set: "A while!"
Me: "Did you know that you guys could be psychic together?"
Set: "What?"
Me: "For ****s and giggles were are going to find out if you guys are psychic together."
Set: "Ok!"
Me: "Give me your hands!"
Set gives me their hands.
Me: "For this to work you guys have to hold hands as well."
Set and I are now all holding hands. This is the point btw. I'm doing all this stuff to get a lot of totally un-creepy touching going in the first 30 seconds of the set. ALL I DO IS RUN MY MOUTH TO GET KINO AND COMPLIANCE.
Me: "Now we have formed a .. psychic circle."
I move their hands around slowly while holding them to give it a fun mystical sense and sub-communicate that I'm messing with them and having fun. (Key Point! Having Fun)
Me: "Ok .. I want both of you to think of a number between 1 TWO .. 4 .. the first number that pops into your mind .. but don't say anything." (I let go of their hands as I'm doing this and I snap my fingers right when I would have said the number 3 .. then I grab their hands again). See I'm touching, letting go, touching, letting go. Is this sinking in?
Me: (hold their hands extra firmly) "Ok .. you guys clearly got the number in your minds, right?"
Set: "Yes." (more compliance)
Me: "Ok .. now .. girl on my left .. what number were you thinking?"
Girl on left: "3."
Set: "OMG! We are psychic together!"
Lots of hugging ensues and I let go of their hands and go to next PK routine or something different entirely.
Frequently you have enough attraction right there to have your wing come in and isolate with your target if it's a 2 set. Sometimes you need another PureKino routine.
For this particular routine if one of the girls says some other number, you can handle it just like Mystery taught me for regular 3-7 with "See .. that is empirical proof that ESP is bull****."
The verbals don't really matter - you don't need to have a psychic test - all you need is the kino and compliance and good sub-communications.
The best thing about this is that there are literally thousands of possible routines to use. This entire approach has been massively field tested by myself and my students and resulted in many wonderful relationships.
Enjoy and post all of the amazing new PureKino routines YOU GUYS INVENT in my forum at www.mehow.tv/forum in the Kino section.
-mehow