"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need serious help...

2nd_Chance

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So yeah, my girl broke up with me about two weeks ago, but kept flirting with me, and what not, idk... I tried to stay away from her but we work together. I have been posting here a bit, you guys have probably seen my posts... I walk outside tonight.. and shes making out with another guy... looks at me and smiles... :-\

This hurts like hell... and I have been in a daze for like... 3-4 hours since it happened. Blah, I wish I could just forget about her, any tips for getting over this pain? ANY kind of immediate help will be appreciated... I seriously felt sick and still do when I saw that... like.. really sick to my stomach... :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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Do you have any good close friends you could go out to a club with or hang out somewhere or something?

Whenever I'm going through a bad time my buddy always seems to sense it and he comes over and hangs out for a while and I feel great.

We just joke around and forget about any problems either of us have.

That or even better do you have any chicks who've been interested in you that you could ask out?

You're a free man now and there's no greater cure for a situation like this than finding a new girl.
 
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You fool - this is the chastisement you receive for "falling" for a hor!!!

Say "No" to hos!!!!!

She was never "your girl" - she is a hor!!! You miscalculated!! Why?
 
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