"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What up.

So there is a girl that I've been trying to get her number off facebook - I know, not usually my style. - long story short I've built a little rapport with her and I went for the question of : drinks next wed.? Let me get your number and we can talk.

Again, not the best approach.

Her: haha well I am dating someone so I don't know how well that would go over ;) lol

Alright, I might be dead in the water but I'm looking for a good response , a shock and awe maybe? Or should I just NC and forget it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Just dating? cant be too serious then, besides, a girl like you should have options!"

might help
"its just for a little drink, I promise to get you home safe.... in the morning!"
 
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