"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need inner game recommendations

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azzak

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hey guys,

one thing ive noticed when analysing my past successes and failures with women is that i have always done extremely well when life is running smoothly (good job, good grades at university, healthy/balanced lifestyle etc). i know this is stating the obvious, but the point i am trying to make is that for me it is all about inner game. when my life is sorted the girls just come naturally. when things are ****ing up in my life no routine can save me.

so basically im always trying to improve my inner game and life in general. at the moment im in a bit of a rut with work and university among other things, i need some inspiration.

can any of you recommend any good books for inner game. not necessarily directly related to women, but on success in life. i have read alot of great posts on this site but it would be nice to have one good book with consistent ideas.

ive heard great things about the book "think and grow rich"

what do you guys reckon?

any other recommendations? has there been any books or articles or posts that have really inspired you and given some great ideas?

cheers

any personal advice on inner game you guys have would also be appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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