"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need help with virgin gf!

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Gustav Yavo

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Hey Hey everyone,

so ive been goin pretty steady with this girl for the past month. Great convo's, great company, great personality, she's hot, used to do ballet so shes flexible in ways that can make a grown man cry and shes a virgin who has only made out with a handfull of guys... so that leads to this dilema. She doesn't know how to eascalate any sexual advances or moves. So far we've made out, ive sucked on her nipples, and pretty much fingered her through her lulu lemon pants (tried to move in even further, got my fingers inside her undies and was touching pubes, but she stopped me) but she hasn't really done anything to service me! She kissed my chest last night, bit me a couple times (i ****in love it), and our two bare chests squeezed together when she sat on top of me while we made out. But by this time i would've at least wanted a bj or a tug or two...
she called me today and the topic came up that she said shes sorry she never really does anythin to me because she really doesn't know what to do. So i told her we'd work on it and id show her the ropes a little bit and try to lead her in the right direction, to which she has no problem with. She also mentioned that she talked to some of her friends and that they told her what to do, so shes gonna try some things next time i see her.

I just wanna know if ive been doing everything ok up to here?, as this is my first vigin, and i wanna know how i should approach pushing her into giving me a bj or let me finger her next time i see her?

(shes also expressed a few times how shes pretty sure that shes gonna let me take her vcard, dunno if that helps)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you want to get your d!ck sucked just pull it out. Then, with a smile on your face say "I think it's time for the teacher to teach the student." Or something along those lines. I'd say you are doing fine. She is just nervous but, she did tell you she wanted to escelate things..
 
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