Need help with this situation...

[Taun_Juan]

I met this girl at my work about 2 weeks ago, HB8 she had high IL in me. I got her number and gave her a call about 2 days later. We chatted for about 10 mins and she seemed interested in me. So since then i give her a call or text her every other day, (dunno if that is a bad thing.

But anyway, we were supposed to be goin on a date on valentines day, kinda last moment, she agreed after she was off night school. Anyway she calls me later that night and said she was off from school late and couldn't make it but would make it up to me. Well the problem im having is last night on Friday i give her a text saying i was free and to call me when you could. She text me back quickly and said she would. It has been about a day and never returned my phone call. Another thing is she has never called me once i always engage the phone call. So the question is am i acting to needy by calling every other day? Should i wait for her to call me back or should i call her in a few days and see hows shes doing?

Btw im 24 and never been in a relationship before so all the help i can get would be greatly appriciated. She also has all the physical features i look for in a girl so i don't wanna mess this up. Thanks keep the replys commin.

 

[duke007]

Sorry to break the news but it looks like you've blown it. You've definitely come across as too needy by contacting her every second day, especially since you've only known her for about 2 weeks. She's probably getting the impression that you are inexperienced at dating.

This is a typical flake. Don't use her phone number anymore. When you see her at work just small talk as if nothing ever happened. Then you'll see by her reaction what she really thinks of you.

I also suggest you read the bible

 

[stalluproar]

I think she took the words out of your mouth when she said she would make it up to you (because that is what I would say you better make it up to me). In this situation, I would say, "You better" and would cut off all communication with her until she called or texed you.

You shouldn't have text msg'd her at all after her flake. You don't want to make her the prize and accept her manipulative behavior.

 

[DrSoSuave]

Taun_Juan:

There is nothing wrong with calling/texting a girl you are interested in every couple of days. She probably doesn't like you that much, and you are being blown off as other guys in here suggested. Women don't tell men they don't want to date them, they let them know by not responding to them. You also mention you met her at work, if she's a coworker - please leave her alone. Move on.

 

[Taun_Juan]

The thing is she is also a busy person, she works full time and goes to school full time, only time she has off is on the weekends. The first week i met her i set up a day when we were both off and she agreed which is this comming Friday but havent talked to her about it for about a week now. She isn't a CO Worker. But should i give her a call to remind her of the date or should i not metion it til she calls/text me back? Keep the replys commin.