w00t my first post...ive been roaming around this forum for awhile reading the many great tips from u guys but now i need some specific help.
theres this chinese girl who's lived in china all her life and she's been here in denmark for a year now(shes almost 19). ive tried a couple of things with a casual date and trying to have fun n stuff like that and tried some mild kino (accidental/incidental brushes, touching her arm, back n shoulder). ive tried moving *closer* to her just a bit more to get on a pesonal level.
but she told me that i shouldnt come too close and shouldnt touch her and i asked her if she was afraid of me or sumthing to which the reply was *but im a girl and ur a boy*.
that would seem like a natural reply since she was brought up by chinese standards but damn im kinda lost on how to get close to this girl(maybe im trying too hard...but it just doesnt seem like it...ive tried kino'ing other girls at the same pace without any problems).
i know the initial thing would be to just forget her and move on but i kinda have a hard time meeting new ppl and dont have that don juan potential yet.
im just wondering what a wise move would be to do to get her to loosen up and be more trustworthy etc.
oh and a couple of thing about her that ive noticed. ´
she's cute and she knows this and she kinda takes advantage of it. i mean during her stay here in denmark she's been to the movies 9 times and 8 of them was paid for by her friends since her excuse was she doesnt like to goto the cinema.
shes kinda poor(parents too) because she doesnt speak danish and therefore is afraid to find a job and kinda keep leeching off of ppl. i mean i havent even known her that long and she has already asked me what i should get for her b-day.
so on one hand she seems innocent ( strict chinese upbringing) and cute or whatever but on the other i cant get the image of a leecher out of my head.
any idea how i can *tell her off* and still get her attracted to me, how to get close to this girl or the last solution....forget about her and move on? last one is kiiinda hard forme since i already said i wasnt that good with meeting new ppl.
yah hope u guys can help...thx =D
theres this chinese girl who's lived in china all her life and she's been here in denmark for a year now(shes almost 19). ive tried a couple of things with a casual date and trying to have fun n stuff like that and tried some mild kino (accidental/incidental brushes, touching her arm, back n shoulder). ive tried moving *closer* to her just a bit more to get on a pesonal level.
but she told me that i shouldnt come too close and shouldnt touch her and i asked her if she was afraid of me or sumthing to which the reply was *but im a girl and ur a boy*.
that would seem like a natural reply since she was brought up by chinese standards but damn im kinda lost on how to get close to this girl(maybe im trying too hard...but it just doesnt seem like it...ive tried kino'ing other girls at the same pace without any problems).
i know the initial thing would be to just forget her and move on but i kinda have a hard time meeting new ppl and dont have that don juan potential yet.
im just wondering what a wise move would be to do to get her to loosen up and be more trustworthy etc.
oh and a couple of thing about her that ive noticed. ´
she's cute and she knows this and she kinda takes advantage of it. i mean during her stay here in denmark she's been to the movies 9 times and 8 of them was paid for by her friends since her excuse was she doesnt like to goto the cinema.
shes kinda poor(parents too) because she doesnt speak danish and therefore is afraid to find a job and kinda keep leeching off of ppl. i mean i havent even known her that long and she has already asked me what i should get for her b-day.
so on one hand she seems innocent ( strict chinese upbringing) and cute or whatever but on the other i cant get the image of a leecher out of my head.
any idea how i can *tell her off* and still get her attracted to me, how to get close to this girl or the last solution....forget about her and move on? last one is kiiinda hard forme since i already said i wasnt that good with meeting new ppl.
yah hope u guys can help...thx =D
