*** Need Help With An Idiot ***

[Charm&Style]

Ive recently began college this year. Ive had good experience (but few) with women.

Im not the type that wants to get a women only in bed, i guess ive changed after my high school years but im looking more for a Firm Relationship.

Anyways my college is pretty far from home and therefor im usualy not home that much and juss chill with the ppl i know from my college area.

Back home i have me and a girl who ive been testing to see if she passes my requirements to be in a relationship with me has been acting shady atleast to my aknowledgement.

We are both attracted to each other and have feelings towards each other. But. She calls me as well as i talk with her to keep the attraction flowing.

Anyways a guy from the girls school has a total crush on her. Shes known the guy for a long time (waterpolo dude) but never felt anything towards him. Considered him as her "brother"

Recently now they hang out a lot. I have no problem with her having guy friends but how would you know if shes INTO HIM?

Shes a HB6.5 or 7 and im prbly an 8.5 on looks. Looks mean nothing to me but the personality she has is keeping me on my toes. I dont want to lose sucha girl but at the same time if shes going to be playing games with me i want to next her right off the bat so i wont get hurt.

How should i know if shes into him or not?

 

[Docs]

I can put my finger on she needs someone to talk too, since her love is in collage. Probably not, keep up the attraction and it should be alright..unless he makes a move...but that's nothing you can stop anyways.

 

[specialed]

i recently had something like this happen...the girl considered him as a brother...they knew eachother for yearssssssssss.

but she kept blowing me off (even tho we were talking everyday on the phone and she would txt me constantly) to do stuff...kept canceling. and one day she canceled my reservations at a dinner so i just said "call me when ur free" and hung up. she text me twice that night, once to start a conversation and once to say goodnight, naturally i responded to neither of them.

later on, with my own investigating...i figure out that by the looks of it, she has a thing for this guy. whatever, the way i looked at it was she just lost a great oppertunity with me...not being gay but i know i'm better looking and have more going for me then this kid.

haven't talked to her since...nor do i plan on her calling me.

but now that i look back i notice some things, she would talk about him more then someone typically would about someone else. and she was getting more distant, i could just tell due to her not wanting to go out...even tho she would talk to me all the time.

hope that helps?

 

[Charm&Style]

that sucks bro, hope your doing well with that.

but mine isnt like that she wants to hang out constantly. She doesnt talk about him. But it seems like she always wants to give me a taste of my own medicine.

I talk to a lot of girls and she knows it but they are all considered friends, even though some of them want to hook up with me i dont see anything with them.

Im sincere and want a relationship only with this girl i like but she doesnt trust that. Therefor sometimes i tend to think that she wants to show me that other guys are after her too, but shes way to nice with them and it seems like shes leading them (and me) on..

im stuck in a whirlpool of confusion.

i love reading your experiences though it helps. Thanx a lot to those of you who shared your thoughts.

Anyboyd else...

 

[DJ_in_making]

Its very unlikely that he's gonna leave the friends zone...

 

[Charm&Style]

idk bro... they talk a lot, they hang out a lot, but then again friends do that but still i believe there should be a limit especialy since he is in "love" with her.