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Need help to continue the action date into a more intimate one (2 different girls)

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Ok here's the quick background: I'm taking two girls wall climbing (different dates of course!). Girl 1 is accredited, so she can belay me, and so can I... So we both can climb. Girl 2 isn't accredited, so I can belay her, but she can't. I was thinking of making a fun challenge to give an excuse to prolong the date afterward:

Girl 1: There is a wall which has sort of a roof (you climb upside down for about two meters long) so I was thinking of a line similar too: Tell you what... If I succeed this wall (I already did, but she doesn't know that :cool:), when we are down climbing, let's go to the old port and you buy me a b e aver's tail (amazingly delicious pastry :D)... If I don't succeed it, I'll owe you one.

Girl 2: Similar, but since I can't climb, I was thinking of bringing her to a semi-difficult wall (easy grips, but with a steep incline at some point) and I was thinking of a line similar too: If you manage to get all the way to the top, when we're done climbing I'll go and buy you a b e aver's tail (I ****ing love this stuff)... If you can't do it, you buy me one.



Any good making challenges like that? And for girl #1, is it better to put myself in the spotlight, or should I put her in it? (girl #2 I have too, she can't belay me)


HA! b e aver is censored -_-
 

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Well if you must do this date, how about you happen to go past a redbox and say "hey wanna grab a movie?"

Your question is basically how to get these girls back to your place, right?

OR, is it "how to make the date more intimate"? Because if it's the latter, then I just don't see rock climbing as a very intimate date...no matter whether she likes it or not. You want intimacy, do something intimate. How old are you? What kind of setting do you live in? How about a damn walk in the park? How about coming over for a movie in the first place? Which of course leads into, how do you know these girls? Is this social circle game? Is this from a cold approach? Are they comfortable with you already? Lot's of variables here.
 
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