Need help on what to say.

[lil hooligan]

I will most likely be at home this weekend and I'm wanting to meet with a girl I know (and like) so I'm wondering what I should say when I call her and whatto suggest doing

p.s. It will most likely be cold may be snowing

 

[boomerick]

This is kind of weak but take her sledding. Action date. Unusial. Under $10 plastic sled. Plenty of body contact. Hot chocolate, coffee or brandy after (maybe in your drawers while your clothes dry). Reconnects her with happy childhood memories. If you want to spend more snowboard or ski. Always fun even if you don't know how.

 

[lil hooligan]

Sounds alright but what to say when I call her

 

[Exhumed]

The fact that you'd even ask that shows that you're apprehensive about calling her...don't prepare anything to say, just focus on sounding confident...you're offering her a wonderful opportunity to partake in a unique, fun activity with you this weekend, as long as you use a tone that reflects that it won't matter how you phrase it

 

[lil hooligan]

Yeh your right I am quite hessitant that's why I asked so I don't make a **** of myself, i wanna know what to say before I do it and anyothe sujestions on what to say but the snowboarding is a good idea

thanks

 

[lil hooligan]

Any ideas guys, seriously anything and I will be in your debt

thanks in advance

this is the first time iv acctually liked a girl enough for a serious relationship not like the ****ty couple of week or month ones iv had before
I don't know what to do I usually get asked out or it just happens but now I need help and I don't want to sound even more afc but please guys I'm litteraly pleading

thanks guys any help is accepted with grace

 

[BigJimbo]

Be direct and honest with her if you actually like her. You will be surprised. Few girls can turn their back on a guy who is direct and honest about his interest in her. Just get on the phone and be direct. You will make her day. I promise you she has never had a guy do that. Girls dream of that.

Girls hear all kinds of crap from guys. That is a true signal that they have "other intentions". Sometimes honesty is the rarest and most precious of all things.

 

[boomerick]

Hows about -- Hey HB its snowing and beautiful out. I know this is gonna sound crazy but I want to go sledding like I did when I was a little kid. Tell you what I'll pick you up at (time). I'll bring the sled. Wear warm clothes and we'll do something like coffee (hot chocolate - brandy-schnapps-baileys) after. Simple to the point and what YOU want to do. (you lead) This will work with any winter activity ie skiing snowboarding etc. The 'after' gives you an out once you are done outdoors and a venue change. You'll have to find a hill, buy a cheap sled, and figure out what your after venue and activity will be. Piece of cake.

 

[lil hooligan]

Thanks guys I'm calling her tomorrow when Im home but has anyone got any other activity Ideas or dou you think the sledging is a good idea?

 

[Exhumed]

Yes. But only bring one sled, you're sharing.