mackdaddy27
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OKay, the past few months, I have been really SLOW, DULL and just DRAGGING MY FEET. I realize that this was because of my fear of failure. fear , that held back my natural confidence and alpha.
PREVIOUSLY:
SO WHAT WOULD HAPPEn is that I would get the number, three weeks later call her for an hour, waist another few weeks, call her again ..eventually set up a DATE , nothing physical would happen and nothign happened, just stagnated. Don't get me wrong, I can do the attraction and comfort but VERY SLOWly ( newbie level pace)
On the one hand, It shows I'm busy, but the slowness was really making this process feel stupid to me. And i started to not see any results.
GOING FORWARD:
A realization, that A FAILURE to call up and set up quickly and ACT quickly IS A sign OF weakness .. The quicker YOU CAN ACT ON IT, THE EASIER IT iS FOr YOU to access FOR YOU TO BE IN A STATE OF YOU AS THE PRIZE, YOU FOUND HEr, and evaluate her quickly..because you are CONFIDEnT ENOUGH To GO THROUGH THE STAGES OF DATES, BECAUSE YOU ARE ALPHA AND YOU GET ALOT OF WOMEN, AND THIS SHOULD BE SECOND NATURE FOR YOU, SHE NEEDS YOU TO LEAD SETUP THE DATE AND KNOW whAT TO SAY TO ISOLATE HEr, BECAUSE YOU GET THE JOB DONE, IT MEANS TO HER THAT YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON TO HAVE SEX WITH BECAUSE you/genes can get laid.
ANYWAY, THE POINT IS "THINGS ARe 10x more fun , and exciting, and EASiEr tO reMAIN COnFIDEnT if YOU DO YOUR GAME WITH SPEED." You get a number and check it for whether it will lead to a lay within 1 week, rather than hawn hewn over some girl for weeks. An ALPHA WILL JUST DO IT.
I have made a huge improvement to my game;
FROM NOW ON...I GEt a number , I call 2 x days later, I set up something that same phone call( for the next few days) , Then I will met her for some activity coffee, mall at the end of activity, BEGIN INTENSE KINO, AND/OR START MAKINg OUT with her right there and I will LEAD/ASSUME the LAY back to my PAd. IF I CAN"t get the lay, I WILL SET UP THE NEXT DATE , AND REPEAT THE PROCESS UNTIL I GET THE JOB DONE.
What does this show? THAt I AM A mAN, that I AM NOT AFRAID TO HIDE my SeXual Needs. That I am man, THAt I GEt what I want and I Know how to do so, I can LEAD. THAT i AM ThE prIze Because I ONLY GiVE HER a week, if after a week she doesnt have sex, I Go find another number and repeat the process from the beginning.
basically the process is Don't take forever to complete this shyt. FROM NUMBER TO BED , IF YOU HAVE THE BALLS To kino with balls, make out, lead/escalate properly, and remain alpha at all time ( comes with practice ) YOU ARE BEING EffiCIent, which reaffirms to yourself that you are ALPHA !!
PREVIOUSLY:
SO WHAT WOULD HAPPEn is that I would get the number, three weeks later call her for an hour, waist another few weeks, call her again ..eventually set up a DATE , nothing physical would happen and nothign happened, just stagnated. Don't get me wrong, I can do the attraction and comfort but VERY SLOWly ( newbie level pace)
On the one hand, It shows I'm busy, but the slowness was really making this process feel stupid to me. And i started to not see any results.
GOING FORWARD:
A realization, that A FAILURE to call up and set up quickly and ACT quickly IS A sign OF weakness .. The quicker YOU CAN ACT ON IT, THE EASIER IT iS FOr YOU to access FOR YOU TO BE IN A STATE OF YOU AS THE PRIZE, YOU FOUND HEr, and evaluate her quickly..because you are CONFIDEnT ENOUGH To GO THROUGH THE STAGES OF DATES, BECAUSE YOU ARE ALPHA AND YOU GET ALOT OF WOMEN, AND THIS SHOULD BE SECOND NATURE FOR YOU, SHE NEEDS YOU TO LEAD SETUP THE DATE AND KNOW whAT TO SAY TO ISOLATE HEr, BECAUSE YOU GET THE JOB DONE, IT MEANS TO HER THAT YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON TO HAVE SEX WITH BECAUSE you/genes can get laid.
ANYWAY, THE POINT IS "THINGS ARe 10x more fun , and exciting, and EASiEr tO reMAIN COnFIDEnT if YOU DO YOUR GAME WITH SPEED." You get a number and check it for whether it will lead to a lay within 1 week, rather than hawn hewn over some girl for weeks. An ALPHA WILL JUST DO IT.
I have made a huge improvement to my game;
FROM NOW ON...I GEt a number , I call 2 x days later, I set up something that same phone call( for the next few days) , Then I will met her for some activity coffee, mall at the end of activity, BEGIN INTENSE KINO, AND/OR START MAKINg OUT with her right there and I will LEAD/ASSUME the LAY back to my PAd. IF I CAN"t get the lay, I WILL SET UP THE NEXT DATE , AND REPEAT THE PROCESS UNTIL I GET THE JOB DONE.
What does this show? THAt I AM A mAN, that I AM NOT AFRAID TO HIDE my SeXual Needs. That I am man, THAt I GEt what I want and I Know how to do so, I can LEAD. THAT i AM ThE prIze Because I ONLY GiVE HER a week, if after a week she doesnt have sex, I Go find another number and repeat the process from the beginning.
basically the process is Don't take forever to complete this shyt. FROM NUMBER TO BED , IF YOU HAVE THE BALLS To kino with balls, make out, lead/escalate properly, and remain alpha at all time ( comes with practice ) YOU ARE BEING EffiCIent, which reaffirms to yourself that you are ALPHA !!