"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need help approaching this girl with her friends?

Djprep

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Okay to start of I don't want want to brag but I've been told by many females that I'm a very attractive guy. I always catch girls dating at me in school. I'm good at approaching girls and getting a little conversation started except for when a girl is with her friends. I don't know why and I don't know what it is but I just can't do it. By the way I'm a junior in high school. So there's this girl I've been following on Instagram and she follows me back. We go to the same school. She is pretty cute with an amazing body.

I haven't seen her all school year until today. We were at lunch and I was walking to the table I sit at and I saw her. I was looking at her and she was staring at me the whole time as I walked by. Maybe she likes me maybe she doesn't. But I need to know a way to approach her if she's with her friends. I want to get to know her so we can hangout this weekend. What can I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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you don't approach a girl with her friends unless you know them. wait until you find her alone, it'll happen eventually, if she's never alone you'll never get her so forget about her
 
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